Tuesday, October 18, 2011

7 Things You Didn't Know About Porn


Source: Cosmo

1. Women get turned on by monkey sex
Think guys are aroused by just about anything? It's actually the other way around. Researchers from Northwestern University showed men and women videos of nude actors exercising, masturbating, or having sex. They found that men have pretty clear "targets" — straight dudes got hot looking at ladies, while gay dudes were turned on by men. It's fuzzier for chicks, though. Even if they didn't report feeling in the mood, straight women experienced physical arousal after viewing pretty much any kind of sexual stimuli — guy-on-guy porn, girl-on-girl action, and even bonobo monkeys getting frisky.

2. Utah is the perviest state
A Harvard study found that Utah had the most online porn subscriptions per every 1,000 broadband users. (The state with the lowest rate of porn subscriptions? Montana.)

3. The body part that men focus on when watching porn is the woman's — wait for it — face
You read that right: eyes and lips win out over boobs and a badonkadonk, according to an eye-tracking study from the Kinsey Institute at the University of Indiana. The researchers speculated that guys look at women's faces to gauge how turned on they are.

4. The pill affects whether you go for the money shot
More from the Kinsey Institute study: Women not on hormonal birth control (like The Pill) zoned in on people's genitals when shown a pornographic pic. But women taking The Pill were more interested in contextual elements such as the background, or what the actors are wearing. Researchers hypothesize it's because Pill-free women have a higher sex drive.

5. All — literally all — men watch it
A researcher from the University of Montreal wanted to study whether pornography has an impact on guys' sex lives. There was just one teensy problem though: To form a control group, he searched for men in their twenties who'd never consumed porn...and he couldn't find a single one.

6. Most guys get into it before puberty
The majority check out porn for the first time at age 10, according to the same University of Montreal study.

7. Presidential elections put people in the mood
Talk about dirty politics. After President Bush won the election in 2004, red states saw a jump in porn-related Internet searches. And after President Obama won in 2008, blue states went on a porn-search frenzy. Researchers from Villanova and Rutgers University believe it's because being on the winning team creates a surge of testosterone, which spikes sex drive.

Saturday, January 15, 2011

Coming Soon!

Which Logo do you like best? I know they both need work but which on should I start working on?

Coming Soon: ASK ERIN and YOU AND YOUR LOVE videos.

I have started making the preparations to go back to school! YAY me! I will be becoming a Sexologist. I am so excited about this and I will need all the support I can get. This is not going to be easy but it is exactly what I need and want to do.

I will also start taking question from you about what I think about sexual issues, I have called it Ask Erin, for now. I don't really like it but it will do for now. The question are confidential and I will never mention names when I am giving my opinion. I am not claiming to be a professional by any means, I have lots of research under my belt and I am reasonably experienced(wink, wink). I have helped many couple in a private setting work through issues. I am in love with what I do and truly have the passion for it. I do not mind talk and going "there" with anyone. All questions can be submitted by email,text, facebook, myspace and twitter.

The You and Your Love is also another series of videos I will be putting out that are mild to wild with info on all things sexual. I am so excited about this. I know there are a million youtube videos out there with all the same information that I too will be putting out there but I have some following and I want to educate people too. I love my loyal follower and want them to get the info from me. I hope you all enjoy and please let me know of any topics you want covered in either set of videos..

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Being a sex toy consultant.

Many people look at direct sales and think it’s just a bunch of pushy sales people. I’d like to offer you a different view to become a sex toy party consultant with For Your Pleasure. Not only have I had the opportunity to build a business, but I also am offering change to couples and their relationships. I’m teaching them how sex toys can be tools for their bedroom, and I’m teaching them that it’s normal to experience bumps in the road when it comes to sex as a couple. And my products sell themselves when I share them. Not only that, but sex is always going to be there, and people are always going to be having sex, and sex toys seem to be recession proof, so you’ll always have a stable business going.

Not only will you have an easy selling product, but you’ll make a better commission than with most direct sales companies. Sex toys pay more than Tupperware, Lia Sophia, and most jewelry plans. You have a choice to start at 35% commission, 40% commission, or 50% commission with For Your Pleasure based on what type of business you’d like to start and grow in to. For Your Pleasure gives you the flexibility to be able to choose from the beginning.

Let’s take a look at the different programs that For Your Pleasure offers:

First we will start with our Vanilla program which allows you to start at 50% commission. You can still recruit and earn commission off of your team. What’s the catch? You’re not eligible for sales bonus or management bonus. To help you understand take a peek at this chart.

Now, take a look at our Professional Program. For Your Pleasure offers this option for those who plan to develop a large business over time and would like to be eligible for sales, and management bonuses. You can work your way up to 50% commission, but it doesn’t happen right away like the Vanilla Program. Take a peek at the chart below to help you understand:

When you talk to other companies they always tell you the commission you’re going to make, the trips, and the rewards, but they don’t tell you the catches to all of that. So I’m going to put all of it out there so you know completely up front what the catches are.

  • There is a monthly fee of $29 due on the 28th of every month. This covers your credit card processing and your website.
  • There is a $25 application fee, and shipping costs when you submit an application
  • You must qualify with $1,000 in sales in your first 60 days
  • If you’re on the Vanilla Program you must do $300 in sales every three months to remain active. If you’re on the Professional Program you must do $150 in sales every 6 months to remain active.

That’s it! So here’s the benefits of joining the For Your Pleasure team.

  • Your host benefits are completely free. They do not come out of your commission. Everything your host gets for hosting a party with you doesn’t cost you a penny.
  • Amazing host benefits so people are excited to book a party with you.
  • Drop shipping available to your customer so you never have to deliver an order, or reship an order. The cost to your customer is $5.95 if they’d like it shipped to the host, and $8.95 if they’d like it shipped directly to their home. Packages delivered via FedEx.
  • Men are always welcome at our parties which opens up the chance for you to conduct couples’ parties where other companies don’t.
  • Sales and management bonuses that can increase your commission to 60% (if joining the Professional Program)
  • No inventory required
  • No merchant account required. For Your Pleasure includes credit card processing in the monthly fee you pay ($29.00)
  • Full website included in your monthly fee that allows your customers to shop online
  • Unlimited, ongoing training
  • Do you have catalogs? We have an amazing catalog that showcases our over 1,000 items we offer. Take a peek 2010 Catalog.
  • Incentives such a yearly trip, free products, cash, and much more when you join For Your Pleasure

As you can see, we might not be a big name company like Passion Parties, or Pure Romance, but we offer you so much more, and take so much less of your commission to operate your business.

So I’m sure by now you’re asking how you can get started! Here’s some easy steps to help you be on yout way to starting your new business. If you still have some more questions I urge you to take a peek at my FAQ for people considering the business. If that still doesn’t answer your questions then fill out this form and I’ll give you a call within 12 hours.

  1. Decide which program you would like to start with; either the Vanilla or Professional program pictured above.
  2. Decide what type of budget you have to get started. Keep in mind there is the $25 application fee, and shipping costs to add on to the cost of your kit. Please see a list of our available kits here. We often have kit specials going on so be sure to check out our current specials.

I’ve helped train hundreds of consultants. I’ve been the education coordinator for another direct sales company, and I also teach my consultants how to offer sex education at their parties with knowledge I’ve gained becoming a sex educator in my area. I’m available to my team at all times and do my best to help you build a beautiful business if that’s what you desire. If you desire to work part time and just earn some extra vacation cash, I cater my help to whatever you may need. I look forward to working with you.